Isabell Agumbah’s Domestic Violence Support

Isabell Agumbah, a talented staff accountant at State Street Financial Services, not only has a passion for finances and helping immigrants, such like herself, wade through the ocean that is the US economy, but also has a passion for advocating for and supporting battered women.  This passion developed in September 2011, a time that proved to be exceedingly difficult for her.  She was forcefully attacked by her, then, partner in front of her young, two year-old child.  In the months following, she lost her car, home, and job due to the chaos and violence inflicted upon her.  It became her life’s calling since then to help other women who are abused and taken advantage of.

Because of Isabell’s life experiences, it is now her true desire to help other people who face abuse of all kinds, whether that is verbally, physically, or in any other way.  This website is dedicated to providing victims of domestic violence with the resources they need to get help and find healthy forms of love and connection with others.

Isabell Agumbah shares on this website how domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior as part of a systemic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against the other. It can include anything from physical violence and sexual violence to psychological violence and emotional abuse.

The frequency and severity of domestic violence can very drastically.  The one consistent tell of domestic violence is that one partner is consistently attempting to maintain control and power over the other individual.

Isabell Agumbah’s Background:

isabellagumbahAs an immigrant, Isabell Agumbah understands the delicate nature of domestic abuse especially if it occurs in a foreign land. These situations tend to be precarious, because the abused partner is most often dependent on the abuser for socio-economic support.

This type of situation creates an environment of fear in which the abused is weary of being deported to their home country should they attempt to break free from this cycle. This is most characteristic if the abuser is a US citizen or permanent resident.

As a result, Isabell hopes to be an advocate for women who find themselves in such strained situations. Furthermore, she aims to establish a national domestic violence organization to look into the plight of abused women who are immigrants. This organization will set up infrastructure and information avenues that will be paramount to aiding women in abusive relationships. The basic mantra of the organization will be: Speak up and seek help, do not be afraid. In addition to this, the organization will set up centers that will offer a safe haven for the victims.

Think You May Be Experiencing Domestic Violence? Isabell Agumbah Shares How to Tell

Domestic violence — whether it be physical or sexual — may occur with or without any warning at all. As Isabell Agumbah is aware, you may not realize that you are in a abusive relationship until it is too late to get out of the frightful situation on your own.

That’s why it is so important to be aware of the “red flags” that can serve as warnings that abuse may occur in the near future. Initially your partner may not show any signs of abusiveness toward you as they exhibit an often exaggerated charm, but as time goes on, major cracks begin to show.

Isabell Agumbah suggests that you should familiarize yourself with these questions, and if you answer yes to one or more of them then you may be in an abusive relationship. In that case, you should seek out help with a domestic violence advocate as soon as possible. The warning signs may include:

  • Does your partner tease you in hurtful ways or call you demeaning names?
  • Does your partner get jealous of your friends, family, or co-workers?
  • Have you lost your friends or no longer see family because of your partner?
  • Does your partner get angry with you over the clothes you wear, how you style your hair, etc.
  • Does your partner blame you for his personal problems or his bad mood?
  • Does your partner threaten to hurt you or anyone who you are close with?

Isabell Agumbah shares that there are numerous ways to protect yourself from and prevent a threatening situation.

If you think your online activity is being monitored by someone who is harassing you, follow these guidelines to help keep you safe.  According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, “If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.  For anonymous, confidential help, 24/7, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).  If you are being abused by your partner, know there is nothing you have done or are doing to cause the abuse. It is solely the choice of the abuser to abuse. It may seem impossible to escape your abuser, change your circumstances, or find the help you need, but it is possible. However, you know your abuser best, so think carefully through your situation and circumstances and do what is the best for you.”